Thank you for your continuous support and friendship. You have been an amazing help to me during this past month while I finished graduate school. I could not have done it without your patience and understanding. I would like to thank you for being so wonderful, as well as apologize for my faults.
We both know that when I was looking for a companion, I wanted to meet an adult, preferably older than three. You came into my life as a young one year old mess who needed a friend, and after being your foster mom for many months, I could not say goodbye. I was happy that you did not have a very high energy level, even back then. I knew that these two years in school would require a lot of my time, energy, and attention. But what you lacked in energy, you began to make up for in behavioral issues.
I let things get to a bad place. I can not fully express the depth of my sorrow for that. I was often tired after I finished a long day in school, and you seemed to prefer cuddling and tug-of-war over a walk. Philadelphia is scary. You seemed very overwhelmed, so I let things slide. This is not acceptable. I am so sorry for this mistake. When a child does not want their vegetables, their mom will not let it slide. They get creative. They ask for one bite. They ask for a second bite. They are encouraging. They persist. I did not persist. You didn’t like walks, so we stopped. I promise to never let this happen again.
I did take you on the occasional walk. And we did a lot of playing, fostering, training, and games. So things were not all bad. But something happened during this time that made me truly understand your stress level. Not anything obvious. Maybe I just was reading, training, and trying to understand. You are after all, my first dog. We did a lot of learning together. But I started to understand that maybe you needed more help than I could offer. I don’t like seeing you stressed. But I didn’t know how to fix it. And avoiding the outdoors certainly isn’t a good solution.
I finally accepted that I needed some help. So after the holidays we went full force into behavioral adjustment training and started you on Prozac. I blamed myself for your lack of progress. But now I blame myself for letting things get as bad as they did. I know this last month has been crazy, but I promise I will never let things get to that place again.
So Leroy, thank you. Thank you for letting me slack off this month. I can not say that life will never get busy or overwhelming again; I’m sure that it will. But I will do my best to remember all of your needs, and take them seriously. You may be willing to skip the walk, but it does not mean that we should. Thank you for everything.
Your Loving Mother and Friend,